I don’t normally write reviews. My daughter set this account up for me and I mostly use it to look up tractor parts. But I finished this book two nights ago and I keep thinking about it so here goes.
Ben Furleigh grew up about 25 miles from where I did. I didn’t know him personally but I knew the Furleigh strawberry operation — everybody up in North Central Iowa knew it. So when I saw this book I figured I’d give it a shot.
The farm chapters are exactly right. Not romanticized, not cleaned up. The PTO story about his dad’s jacket getting caught at 450 RPM — I had to put the book down for a second because I knew two men that didn’t make it out of a situation like that. Ben’s dad was one of the lucky ones and the book doesn’t shy away from how close it actually was. That’s the kind of thing you don’t read about in most farm books. Most of them are written by people who visited a farm once.
The stuff about the weed pulling and the hog crates and driving the grain truck at age nine — all of it is true to life. My boys did the same. ‘It’ll build character’ is the most Iowa sentence ever written and I laughed out loud when I read it.
What surprised me was how much I got into the adoption chapters. That’s not something I expected to connect with but the part about his teacher asking ‘what’s your nationality’ in second grade and he had to say he didn’t know — that stuck with me. And the way he writes about meeting his birth parents, not like a TV movie but just matter of fact and honest, that’s the right way to tell that story.
The city council stuff is also good. The pool fight, the downtown bricks, the airport situation where they were trying to condemn his family’s land while asking Clear Lake for marketing money at the same time — that takes some nerve. I’ve dealt with county boards my whole life and it’s exactly that kind of backwards logic you run into.
My only complaint is the letters to the editor section goes on a long time. I agree with most of what he says politically but reading a stack of opinion letters one after another is different from reading a memoir. I started skimming a little toward the end of that section. That’s just my preference though.
Overall — this is an honest book by an honest man. That’s harder to find than it sounds. If you grew up farming in Iowa or know someone who did, buy it.
Format: Paperback | Reviewer: Retired farmer, age 71, Cerro Gordo County Iowa
REVIEW 1 OF 4
My book club picked this one and I’ll be honest — when I saw the cover I thought it was going to be one of those folksy ‘life lessons from the heartland’ books that’s basically a long LinkedIn post. I was wrong.
The early chapters are something else. The scene where his dad nearly dies getting caught in the tractor PTO shaft and his only thought is ‘I hope I don’t go through too much pain’ is genuinely harrowing. And then we find out the engine just… stopped. By itself. And he walked away with one split rib. The whole passage is written so plainly, no drama added, and that plainness is what makes it hit.
The adoption story is where the book really found me. I’m not adopted but I have a close friend who is and a lot of what Ben describes — the feeling of being airdropped into a foreign place, the weird identity questions in school, the way Superman being adopted made him a childhood favorite — I’ve heard versions of all of it. What I haven’t heard is someone describe the process of actually finding their birth family with this kind of honesty. He doesn’t make it a tearjerker. He makes it real. His birth father tearing up at the bar in Chippewa Falls because he realized he’d missed all those football conversations — that landed.
The fraternity chapters are funnier than I expected. The part where he walks into Delta Sigma Phi and sees a guy asleep with his feet on the table surrounded by beer cans and thinks ‘this is the one’ made me laugh. And then the part where he ends up as president because the chapter is about to collapse financially, inherits a box of unopened bills, and somehow holds the whole thing together — it reads like a comedy but he’s completely serious about the management lessons he took from it.
The section on his kids is wonderful. His son interviewing with Elon Musk (Elon had ‘just a slightly larger cubicle than everyone else’), his daughter calculating a driving time in her head at age twelve and being right down to the half minute, the Star Trek convention story — this is the stuff memoirs are made of and it all feels true.
Now for my issues, and I want to be fair here because I think this book is genuinely good. The letters to the editor section is a gear shift the reader doesn’t get much warning about. You’ve been in this warm, specific, personal story and then suddenly you’re reading political opinion letters from the 1990s. Some of them are great — the ones that tie directly back to his Clear Lake experience especially. But there are a lot of them and they go back a long way. I think a tighter selection would have been more powerful than the full archive.
Also the chapter about the craniotomy and sobriety — I think that’s the most important chapter in the whole book and it comes quite late and moves quickly. That story (DUI, brain surgery, the discovery that alcohol was mimicking Parkinson’s, stopping drinking, getting his mind back) deserves more space. I wanted to sit in it longer.
Four stars. Genuinely worth reading. The writing isn’t fancy but Ben Furleigh has the most important thing a memoirist can have — he actually lived something, and he’s honest about it.
Format: Kindle | Reviewer: Avid reader, memoir fan, suburban Chicago
REVIEW 2 OF 4
Background on me: I spent 28 years in manufacturing quality before retiring at 54. I found Ben’s book through a reference in an early retirement forum and bought it mainly for the ’20 steps to retire at 56 on a middle class income’ angle. I stayed for the rest of it.
Here’s what makes the retirement section of this book different from every other financial independence book I’ve read: you’ve just spent 80 pages watching Ben work. Plant shutdowns. Job relocations. Two-year production stints for minimum wage just to keep the political goal alive. Years at Sukup Manufacturing dealing with a company that didn’t have an org chart. A quality system he built from scratch. 2,700 corrective action investigations over eleven years. You know exactly what this man’s working life looked like before he retired, so when he tells you he retired at 56 with a paid off mortgage and two kids through college debt-free, you believe it completely. The biography is the evidence.
The quality career chapters also hit different for me because I lived a version of them. The part about the warehouse where the entire inventory system ran on one guy’s memory — and that guy was out sick — I’ve been in that exact building. The shadow board for the weld fixtures. The 5S program and the $30 trophy that somehow generated more pride and competition than any salary incentive. The supplier who joked ‘are you going to issue a corrective action if you run out of toilet paper’ and then found out that comment was repeated verbatim to his boss — I’ve been in that meeting too. This section has an authenticity you can’t fake.
The fitness chapter is underrated in the context of early retirement. His point that a retirement with bad health isn’t really retirement at all, and that consistent exercise is the closest thing we have to a fountain of youth — this isn’t gym-bro content. This is a man who placed first in five events at a county senior games competition at age 60 and was ranked in the top 100 in his age group nationally. He’s made the argument with his body, not just with words.
What I would add for future editions: the retirement chapter could use more specific numbers. Not everyone’s comfortable sharing but even ballpark figures — target savings rate as a percentage of income, approximate index fund allocation during accumulation phase, age-based rebalancing approach — would give readers who want to replicate the outcome a clearer path. Right now it’s principles without enough of the mechanics.
I’d also have liked a chapter on what a day in retirement actually looks like. The Senior Games training, the mentoring, the political writing, the Fireside Playlist — those details are scattered throughout. Pulling them into a ‘this is what I built my retirement toward’ chapter would be a useful addition.
Four stars. Buy it if you’re interested in early retirement, manufacturing careers, or just want proof that a middle class income + consistent habits + long-term thinking over 30 years actually works. Ben Furleigh is the proof.
Format: Paperback | Reviewer: Early retirement community, formerly manufacturing QC, age 56
REVIEW 3 OF 4
Nine years on a city council. I know this world. And I want to say upfront that the chapters covering Ben’s three terms in Clear Lake are the most accurate depiction of local government I’ve come across in any memoir or book about civic life. Not a Hollywood version. Not cleaned up. The actual thing.
The sticky dots on the big sheets of paper during strategic planning sessions — yes. That is literally how it works. The city administrator who already knows which projects can be delayed but waits to see which way the council will move — yes. The newspaper report the next morning that seems like it was written about a different meeting — also yes. I read these chapters nodding the whole way through.
The airport battle is almost a perfect case study in how competing interests play out at the local level. Mason City Airport sends condemnation letters to clear land — including Ben’s aunt and uncle’s house — while simultaneously asking Clear Lake to extend water and sewer for their industrial park, while also asking for marketing money. And Ben makes the motion to deny the marketing money, which is obviously right, but then later votes to extend the utilities anyway because he does the math and it would cost millions more to extend from Mason City. That is exactly the kind of decision that people outside government never understand. The right vote and the satisfying vote are different things and you have to be able to tell them apart.
The ‘Target on My Back’ chapter should be required reading for anyone thinking about running for local office. The pattern he describes — where his votes against a casino, a chicken processing plant, a golf course with a developer who had 47 lawsuits against him, and a housing development on green space, all map directly onto the donation list for his opponent — is not unusual. It’s the ordinary shape of local political corruption. The fact that the bank where his family had kept money since 1934 had six board members backing his opponent is the kind of detail that makes you angry and tired at the same time. I know that feeling.
I also want to mention the Thursdays on Main chapter because it’s a small story that says something true about how progress actually happens in local government. Ben makes the motion because he knows somebody has to absorb the political risk so others can follow. There’s no big speech. He just does the thing, takes the heat, and turns out to be right. Now the event draws seven to eight thousand people a week. That’s how it works when it works.
A few thoughts on the letters section since other reviewers have mentioned it: I actually enjoyed more of the letters than I expected to, particularly the ones directly tied to his council votes — the casino letter, the pool letter, the airport stuff. Where I agree with other readers is that the more general political editorials are harder to sustain as a reading experience when you’re expecting memoir. I think the letters that connect to his personal story should stay exactly where they are. The rest might work better as an appendix so readers who want the full civic document can find it, and readers who want the story can move through without interruption.
One more thing. The chapter about his DUI and craniotomy. That’s the most unexpected and most important chapter in the book, in my opinion. A man who served on a city council, who inspected a new county jail as Councilman Furleigh, finding himself inside that same county system as an inmate, with hands shaking so badly he can’t use a phone — and then the discovery that alcohol was mimicking Parkinson’s symptoms, and surgery, and sobriety — that chapter earns its place. I just wish it had more room. It ends and you’re already at the conclusion and part of you wants to turn back and sit in that chapter for a while longer.
Four stars. A genuine public servant writing honestly about what he actually did. In this environment, that’s rarer than it should be.
Format: Paperback | Reviewer: Former city council member (9 years), small Midwestern city.
REVIEW 4 OF 4
End of Beta Reader Reviews — An Iowa Farm Boy by Ben Furleigh
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